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John 11 — A funeral, a delay that made no sense, and the moment everything changed
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This is the chapter where everything reaches a breaking point. has been healing strangers, debating religious leaders, and making claims that no one could ignore. But now it gets personal. His close friend is dying — and what Jesus does next will make you question everything you think you know about how God handles the moments when you need him most.
Because here's the thing: Jesus didn't rush. He waited. And what happened on the other side of that wait is the single most dramatic in — the moment that forced an entire nation to either believe in him or plot to kill him.
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A man named was seriously ill. He lived in with his sisters and — the same Mary who would later anoint with perfume and wipe his feet with her hair. These weren't casual acquaintances. This was a family Jesus loved deeply.
So the sisters sent an urgent message to Jesus:
"Lord, the one you love is sick."
Short. Direct. They didn't ask him to come. They didn't tell him what to do. They just told him the situation and trusted that would be enough. And Jesus responded:
"This illness won't end in death. It's for the glory of God, so that the Son of God may be glorified through it."
And then — here's where it gets hard — he stayed where he was for two more days. makes a point of telling us that Jesus loved Martha, Mary, and Lazarus. And then, in the very next sentence, says he deliberately didn't come. The and the delay are sitting right next to each other. That's not a contradiction. But it sure feels like one when you're the one waiting.
If you've ever prayed for something urgent and felt like God wasn't moving fast enough, this is your chapter. The silence wasn't absence. But it was real, and it was painful.
After two days, told his the plan:
"Let's go back to Judea."
The disciples couldn't believe it:
"Rabbi — they were just trying to stone you there. And you want to go back?"
Fair concern. Jesus answered with a metaphor:
"Aren't there twelve hours of daylight? If you walk during the day, you don't stumble, because you can see. But if you walk at night, you stumble because there's no light in you."
Then he added:
"Our friend Lazarus has fallen asleep. I'm going to wake him up."
The disciples took it literally:
"Lord, if he's sleeping, he'll be fine."
Jesus had been talking about . They thought he meant a nap. So he said it plainly:
"Lazarus is dead. And for your sake, I'm glad I wasn't there — so that you may believe. But let's go to him."
That sentence should stop you for a second. Jesus said he was glad he wasn't there. Not because he didn't care. Because what was coming would do something in them that a simple healing never could. Sometimes the bigger thing God is doing requires a longer, harder road than you would have chosen.
Then — who gets remembered as the doubter but showed real courage here — said to the other disciples:
"Let's go too, so we can die with him."
Not exactly optimistic. But loyal. Thomas didn't understand what was about to happen, but he wasn't going to let Jesus go alone.
When arrived, had already been in the tomb for four days. was only about two miles from , and a crowd of mourners had come out to comfort the sisters.
heard Jesus was coming and went out to meet him. stayed behind in the house. And Martha didn't hold back:
"Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died."
There it is. The thing we've all felt. If you'd been here, this wouldn't have happened. But then Martha added something remarkable:
"But even now, I know that whatever you ask from God, God will give you."
She was grieving and questioning and trusting all at the same time. Jesus told her:
"Your brother will rise again."
Martha nodded:
"I know — in the Resurrection on the last day."
She believed in as a future event. A theological concept. Someday, eventually, at the end of all things. And then Jesus said something that reframed everything:
"I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, even if they die, will live. And everyone who lives and believes in me will never die. Do you believe this?"
Read that again slowly. He didn't say "I will bring resurrection." He said " the resurrection." It's not an event you wait for — it's a person standing in front of you. Martha wasn't wrong about the last day. But she was looking at resurrection as something far off when it was standing two feet away.
Martha answered:
"Yes, Lord. I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, who is coming into the world."
That confession — right there, in the middle of her grief — is one of the clearest declarations of in the entire .
went back and quietly told :
"The Teacher is here. He's asking for you."
Mary got up immediately and went to him. The mourners who had been sitting with her in the house saw her leave quickly and assumed she was going to the tomb to cry, so they followed her.
When Mary reached , she fell at his feet and said the same words Martha had:
"Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died."
Same words. Different posture. Martha stood and talked it out. Mary collapsed. Both were honest. Both were hurting. There's no single right way to bring your grief to God.
When Jesus saw Mary weeping — and the crowd weeping with her — something happened in him. says he was deeply moved in his spirit and greatly troubled. The original language here is intense. This wasn't polite sympathy. This was something closer to anguish. Jesus asked:
"Where have you laid him?"
They said:
"Lord, come and see."
And then two words that have echoed for two thousand years:
Jesus wept.
The shortest verse in the Bible, and one of the most important. The — the one who would raise from the dead minutes later — stood there and cried. He wasn't weeping because the situation was hopeless. He was weeping because grief is real, and he refused to skip past it.
Some in the crowd saw it and said:
"Look how much he loved him."
But others pushed back:
"He opened the eyes of a blind man. Couldn't he have kept this man from dying?"
That second question is the one we still ask. If you could have stopped this, why didn't you?
Still deeply moved, came to the tomb. It was a cave with a stone laid across the entrance. He said:
"Take away the stone."
— practical to the end — said:
"Lord, it's been four days. There will be an odor."
(Quick context: In that culture, four days meant the person was truly, irreversibly dead. No chance of mistaken . No ambiguity. This was final.) Jesus looked at her:
"Didn't I tell you that if you believed, you would see the glory of God?"
So they moved the stone. And Jesus looked up and prayed:
"Father, I thank you that you have heard me. I knew that you always hear me, but I said this out loud for the people standing here — so they may believe that you sent me."
Then he shouted:
"Lazarus, come out!"
And the dead man walked out. Still wrapped in burial cloths. Hands and feet bound in linen strips. Face covered with a cloth. Alive. Jesus said:
"Unbind him, and let him go."
There's something powerful about those last five words. Jesus called out of the grave. But he told the community to unwrap him. The miracle was God's. The ministry of belonged to the people around him. That's still how it works. God does the impossible thing. And then he looks at us and says: now help them live in it.
Many of the people who had come to mourn with saw what happened and believed in . But some of them went straight to the and reported what he'd done.
So the chief and Pharisees called an emergency meeting of the :
"What are we going to do? This man keeps performing signs. If we let him continue, everyone will believe in him — and the Romans will come and take away our place and our nation."
Think about what just happened. A man was raised from the dead. And the leadership's first response was a political strategy meeting. They weren't asking "Is this from God?" They were asking "How does this affect our power?" The miracle wasn't the problem. The threat to their position was.
Then , the that year, cut in:
"You don't understand anything. It's better for one man to die for the people than for the whole nation to be destroyed."
adds a stunning editorial note: Caiaphas didn't come up with this on his own. As high priest, he was unknowingly prophesying — that Jesus would die for the nation, and not just for the nation, but to gather all of God's scattered children into one.
The man trying to orchestrate Jesus' was accidentally preaching the . He thought he was making a political calculation. He was announcing .
From that day on, they actively planned to kill him.
knew what was coming. He stopped walking openly among the Jewish leaders and withdrew to a town called , near the wilderness, where he stayed with his .
Meanwhile, was approaching, and people from all over the country were heading to to prepare. They were looking for Jesus, talking among themselves in the :
"What do you think? Will he even come to the feast?"
The chief and had already put out orders: if anyone knows where Jesus is, report it immediately so they can arrest him.
The tension is building. Everyone knows something is about to happen. The religious leaders want him dead. The crowds want him at the festival. And Jesus is in the wilderness, waiting — the same way he waited before coming to . Not because he was afraid. Because his timing has never been ours.