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Tragedy, Trees, and Tiny Seeds.

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Forgiveness is commanded. But staying in a harmful relationship isn't. The Bible models both grace AND boundaries — Jesus himself walked away from people.

Luke 13 — The chapter that asks what you're doing with the time you have left

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Jesus refuses to explain why tragedies happen — instead he turns the question back on the crowd: stop using other people's pain to feel safe about your own standing.

The fig tree parable holds a tension most people miss: God's patience is extraordinary, but it isn't indifference. The season for bearing fruit doesn't last forever.
The Kingdom of God doesn't arrive with an army or a campaign. It starts as a seed and a pinch of yeast — almost invisible — then becomes something no one can ignore.

📢 Chapter 13 — Tragedy, Trees, and Tiny Seeds 🌱

was in the middle of his journey to , teaching as he went. The urgency in his voice was growing. He wasn't offering comfort anymore — he was warning them. And the warnings came wrapped in tragedy, a dying tree, a no one could argue with, and two tiny images that turned everything upside down.

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When Tragedy Isn't a Verdict 💔

Someone brought up a recent horror — had killed a group of worshippers, mixing their blood with their own . Behind the report was an unspoken question: was their a for something they'd done?

went straight at the assumption:

"Do you think those Galileans were worse sinners than everyone else in Galilee, just because this happened to them? No. But unless you repent, you will all perish just the same.

Or what about the eighteen people who died when the tower in Siloam collapsed on them — do you think they were worse offenders than everyone else in Jerusalem? No. But unless you repent, you will all perish just the same."

He didn't explain either tragedy — neither Pilate's violence nor the tower collapse in . What he said was: stop using other people's pain to feel safe about your own standing. The real danger isn't the tower — it's the assumption that you have unlimited time to get right with .

The Tree That Was Running Out of Time 🌳

Right after that warning, told a :

"A man had a fig tree planted in his vineyard. He kept coming to it looking for fruit, and year after year — nothing. Finally he told the gardener, 'Look, I've been coming to this tree for three years and it hasn't produced a single fig. Cut it down. Why should it waste the soil?'

But the gardener said, 'Sir, give it one more year. Let me dig around it, fertilize it, give it every chance. If it bears fruit next year — great. If not, then you can cut it down.'"

Both characters are right. The owner is justified — three years with no fruit is a long time. But the gardener asks for . Not infinite mercy. One more year. One final opportunity.

That's the tension. is patient — stunningly patient. But patience isn't indifference. There's a gardener in your right now giving you every advantage — but the season doesn't last forever. The question isn't whether you'll get the chance. It's whether you'll bear fruit while you still have one.

Eighteen Years Bent Over 🙌

was teaching in a on the , and there was a woman who had been physically bent over for eighteen years. A disabling had kept her unable to stand up straight. She hadn't looked anyone in the eye in almost two decades.

Jesus didn't wait for her to ask. He called her over:

"Woman, you are freed from your disability."

He laid his hands on her, and immediately — after eighteen years — she stood up straight. And she glorified God.

But the ruler of the synagogue was furious — not at the healing, but at the timing:

"There are six days for work. Come get healed on one of those days — not on the Sabbath."

Jesus didn't hold back:

"Hypocrites! Every one of you unties your ox or donkey on the Sabbath to lead it to water. And this woman — a daughter of Abraham — whom Satan has kept bound for eighteen years — shouldn't she be set free on the Sabbath?"

His opponents were silenced. The of the crowd was overjoyed.

The synagogue leader cared more about scheduling than . Jesus made the point sharp: if you'd untie your animal on the Sabbath without a second thought, how can you tell a suffering woman to come back tomorrow?

Smaller Than You'd Expect 🌿

After warnings about , a about running out of time, and the confrontation in the — asked a question:

"What is the Kingdom of God like? What can I compare it to?

It's like a mustard seed that someone planted in a garden. It was tiny — but it grew into a tree so large that birds made nests in its branches."

Then he gave them a second image:

"What else is the Kingdom of God like? It's like yeast that a woman mixed into a huge batch of flour — and it quietly worked its way through the entire batch until all of it had risen."

Two images, same point. The doesn't arrive with an army. It starts almost invisibly — a seed, a pinch of yeast — then grows into something no one can ignore.

Jesus had just healed one woman in one synagogue on one Saturday. To the religious leaders, it looked like a rule violation. To Jesus, it was the kingdom at work — small, specific, personal. That's how it still works. Not through grand programs, but one act of compassion at a time, quietly spreading until it changes everything. The mustard seed doesn't announce itself. It just grows.