"I left you in Crete for this reason — so you could put the remaining things in order and appoint Elders in every town, just like I instructed you.
An elder must be above reproach. Faithful to his wife. His children must be believers and not known for being out of control or rebellious.
Because an overseer is managing God's household — not his own. He must not be arrogant, hot-tempered, a heavy drinker, violent, or in it for the money.
Instead, he should be hospitable, someone who genuinely loves what is good, self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined.
And he must hold firmly to the trustworthy message as it's been taught — so he can encourage others with solid teaching and also correct those who push back against it."