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Genesis 13 — The chapter where letting go of first pick unlocks everything
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What happens next is one of those stories that looks simple on the surface but reveals something profound about how actually works when there's something real on the line.
didn't just leave and wander. He went back to the exact spot where he'd started — the place between and where he'd built an altarand worshipedGod before everything got messy.
Abram traveled up from Egypt into the Negev — him, his wife, everything he owned, and Lot with him. He was extremely wealthy by now — livestock, silver, gold. He kept moving from the Negev all the way back to Bethel, to the place where his tent had been at the very beginning, between Bethel and Ai — the same spot where he'd first built an altar. And there, Abram called on the name of the Lord.
There's something worth noticing here. After a season where he'd compromised, where things had gone sideways in Egypt, the first thing Abram did was go back to the place where he'd last been right with God. Not a new location. Not a fresh start somewhere else. The same altar. Sometimes the most important step forward is going back to the place where you got off track and starting again from there.
Here's where things get interesting. Both and had done well — really well. So well, in fact, that the land couldn't handle both of their operations anymore. Their herdsmenwere clashing. Resources were strained. The tension was rising.
(Quick context: The and were still living in the land at this point. So Abram and Lot were essentially guests in someone else's territory, fighting with each other while outsiders watched. Not a great look.)
Abram stepped in and said something remarkable:
"Let's not have conflict between us — not between you and me, and not between our herdsmen. We're family. Look, the whole land is right in front of you. Let's go our separate ways. If you go left, I'll go right. If you go right, I'll go left. Your choice."
Read that again. Abram was the . He was the one God had made the to. By every cultural norm, he had the right to pick first.Instead, he handed the choice to his nephew and said "you decide." That's not weakness — that's the kind of confidence that only comes from knowing someone bigger is handling your future. When you trust God with what's ahead, you don't have to white-knuckle every decision. You can afford to be generous because you know the outcome isn't ultimately up to you.
looked around, and what he saw was an easy decision:
Lot looked up and saw that the whole Jordan Valley was lush and well-watered — like the garden of the Lord, like the land of Egypt stretching toward Zoar. (This was before the Lord destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah.) So Lot chose the entire Jordan Valley for himself and headed east. That's how they parted ways. Abram settled in the land of Canaan, while Lot settled among the cities of the valley and moved his tent as far as Sodom.
And then the narrator drops this line like a footnote that changes everything:
Now the men of Sodom were wicked — great sinners against the Lord.
Lot picked the place that looked like paradise.Green, prosperous, everything you'd want if you were scrolling through listings and choosing based on the photos. But the narrator wants you to know something Lot either didn't know or didn't care about: the neighborhood looked incredible, but the people were deeply corrupt. He chose based on what his eyes could see. And what his eyes couldn't see would nearly cost him everything.
It's the oldest trap in the book. The opportunity that looks perfect on the surface — the job, the relationship, the move — and you make the decision based entirely on what's visible. Lot wasn't for choosing it. He just chose without asking God. And "as far as " has a way of becoming "inside Sodom"faster than you think.
Here's the part that makes the whole story land. After left — after had given away the first pick, after he'd watched his nephew walk toward the best-looking land — God spoke:
The Lord said to Abram: "Now lift up your eyes and look from where you are — north, south, east, and west. All the land you see, I'm giving to you and your offspring forever. I will make your offspring like the dust of the earth — if anyone could count the dust, then your offspring could be counted too. Get up. Walk the length and width of this land. I'm giving it to you."
Think about the timing. God didn't speak before Abram made his generous offer. He spoke after. Abram gave Lot the choice, trusted God with the leftovers — and God responded by him everything. Not just the valley Lot picked. Everything. In every direction. Forever.
And it wasn't just land. It was a legacy — descendants so numerous they'd be like dust. Uncountable. This was God expanding the promise He'd already made, going bigger than before, right at the moment when it looked like Abram had just lost out.
So Abram moved his tent and settled by the oaks of Mamre, near Hebron. And there he built an altar to the Lord.
Notice the pattern. The chapter starts with Abram at an , and it ends with him building another one. He worshiped before the test and after the test. Whatever happened in between — the conflict, the parting, the waiting — his response was the same. Build an altar. Call on God. Trust that the Promise is bigger than what you can see.
That's the whole chapter in one line: Lot chose what looked best. Abram let God choose for him. And it wasn't even close.